Change Your Thinking, Heal Yourself! "The Position of Toxic Manipulator Has Been Eliminated"

By C. Meagan Michael

In order for us to transition from Victim To Survivor (and THRIVE!) we need to change our thinking in many dramatic ways. Our thought processes throughout our lives did not serve us. Unless we are willing to take an honest look at where our thinking was flawed and replace it with resolutions to old problems, we will remain exactly where we have been. Constantly creating the same situations with new people taking the place of the old.

Delving into our trauma enables us to ascertain why we think this way and where those thoughts originated. People who are not ready to make this move may find it triggering and even victim blaming. There is no blame here. We are not responsible for the abuse we suffered. We are responsible for not suffering it again with someone new.

Like a job that is no longer available. "We have eliminated the position of toxic manipulator. Those of you currently holding this position, take your stuff and exit the building. If you are still here when I count to 3 security will escort you out."

Notice there are no please's and thank yous. We have done enough of that with these people. Spending our lives finding a problem for every solution is not just a narc/toxic habit, it's a victim habit as well. I just addressed that in my next video which I am uploading currently. Thanks for sharing...#Peace