Are You Waiting For Others To Create Your Reality?

Hoping things will be different in life and then leaving the situation because they are not what you hoped, is not you creating your own reality. Those are the actions of someone hoping the reality that someone else creates will suit them.

Think about that for a moment...

Many of us became somewhat passive aggressive through the years. We learned to allow others to create our reality and then resented the reality that they created. Oftentimes complaining to others about this reality that did not suit us but never directly addressing the cause directly to see if something could be done to improve or change it for the situation for the better.

Through the years we were made to believe our opinions not only did not matter, but were worthless. We were made to think we were worthless so how could our opinions matter.

Expressing our opinions and feelings in the past would create conflict. Who likes conflict? Many of us became non confrontational to the extreme. If we are to truly move past being victims and survivors and thrive in this life, we need to feel comfortable and confident sharing our opinions and our feelings