When they are done with you they can stop “loving” you as quickly as they started. You have been discarded. (It is a true blessing in disguise)If one of the former narcissists in your life is a Narcissistic Mother and she calls that cruel, backstabbing, disloyal, throw you under the bus for a total stranger, always conditional thing that she does, “love” than so be it.
Once we learn to truly love and respect ourselves, we will never again accept their fake love in our lives. Wrapping abuse up with a pretty bow and calling it LOVE... is still abuse.