I now understand that breaking free is a process. Initially it was a big move an escape from torture and pure evil but once we have broken free and we are on our own, the process continues. We learn, evolve, grow and continue to realize ALL the toxic people in our lives and break free from them.
Breaking free is not only from other people, We have to break free from negative thinking. Toxic thought patterns that were burned into our brains as children and abused adults.
The process of self discovery, self love, self care is SO empowering. It is not easy. If anyone tells you it is they are fibbing but is it worth it? Is it life changing? Is it so life changing that you know had you not been torn down that far you could not have built yourself back up to the amazing life you are living now? YES!
A thousand times yes. Abundance, joy living a happy healthy narc free life is an ongoing process but after all we have been through, we know that we are not only survivors but thrivers. We are able to enjoy life, because we enjoy being ourselves. We appreciate everything big and small. We create our own reality. We have taken back our power and vow never to give it away to anyone again. We are in charge of our own lives and no one can stop us now. 
